Life....and trying to do well for yourself....

[RFChris]

...don't fooking do it...unless you have pride. If you don;t have any pride then you should scrounge. Do as little for yourself as possible and sit back and reap the benefits, because I'll tell you what: if you do that you'll do better than most people.

 

99% of the people I know have pride, but the 1% seem to be doing better while generally 'caring less' about anything than I do.

 

Got pride in yourself?

 

Want to do well?

 

Want to be financially 'comfortable' ?

Well, don't be. It won't get you anywhere....

 

Angry? Upset? Missing my daughter? Scared that my sub 12 month marrige is on the rocks? Urm, yeah.....

[Chris M]

sounds like somones had a reality burst

[Copey]

not soundin good Chris

 

i hope things turn out ok for you mate

[bigglesmk2]

Im not the cleverest tool in the box and neither are my mates,im am a self confessed scumbag chav

But i have been making the breakway from that sh!tty lifestyle since i was about 18.

I have 2 children goin to a good school a mortgage (wont be paid off till im retired ) and a great missus.I will struggle to climb ladder into better jobs as im abit of a dumbass and i will probably be doing my dead end job 10 years after im dead,i would say i have pride coz i've earnt everything i got through hard work.

But because we live in backwards land i'd be better off sitting on my ass just like some of my mates and even one of my sisters,who do sod all apart from eat sleep pump out kids and claim more benefits.

 

But hey,no matter how hard i work there will allways be some lazy git round the corner sitting on his brains doing sod all and not getting sh!t on for paying his way.

 

Kida lost the point i was getting at with this post by now

[d2000ad]

I Know what you mean mate no matter how hard ya try some tinker lol gets it for free and laughs at ya. I wish I could tell ya it will change but it probably wont. All I can say is by going to work paying bills and all the other shit that goes with it your kids will hopefully learn to do the same and see that you want better for them. So one day if they follow your example they will want better for their kids. Someone once told me when I was having the kind of day your having that the real hard men are the ones that go to work and the wimps are the lads in jail that get 3 meals a day and a roof over here head for fook all. Hang in ther mate.

[mk3tina]

well i must confess i am on that jobseeker allowance right now, left my job in january as it was driving me mad and ruining my outside of work life, just making me a generally angry tinker lol. i left work and everyone noticed i had changed into a nicer person. i dont like being on the dole as its a bit boring and its £90 to live on for two weeks, which gets you nowhere. i am going back to college in september to start a new course and get into another line of work, i am a qualified mechanic and served my time and got all the bits of paper to prove it , but to be honest everyone who i knew who worked in the motor trade, was getting nowhere in life and just struggling to get by, they mostly lived on council estates, and i just thought, right this isnt going to get me far in life staying in this trade. i would like to run my own restoration business but only just turning 20 now its not really an option. i dont plan to stay on the dole, i want to get my own business/good job, and i want to have the finer things in life like nice house with a big garage, and provide for my family when that time comes around. im having a pretty crap time in life at the moment and i do feel for you. onwards and upwards mate

[Mk2Jo]

Jack your job, move back and be with your family

[Lardy]

Jack your job, move back and be with your family

Its true mate some things are more important than work i was working here and the wife and new born twins were in Ireland and nearly 1 1/2 years of their life later just seeing them on a long weekend every two weeks I was just going to move out and the wife decided sheshould move back to England and see how things go but my point is it was f'ing hard on us both and also thats 1 1/2 years of my kids lives i can never get back do you want that

[Mr.Sumo]

Jack your job, move back and be with your family

 

NAIL.......HEAD

[mk2_escort_chick]

I unfortunately don't have any wise words...just a hug!

[Posse]

unfortunately chris m8 retro ford mag has always been like that Shame m8 i feel for you

[4parajon]

Feel for you mate. Can't say anymore that's not been said already.