Gareth Posted August 16, 2007 Report Posted August 16, 2007 Is what the doctor gave my Dad to live. He was dignosed with cancer of the oseophagus and emphysema, basically his lungs are screwed. I dunno what to feel about puttin somethin so personal on a public forum. But I jus need to put it down on paper, so to speak. This is all smokin related, so let this be a lesson peeps, My Dad's only wishes are that my brothers and I give up. So I am.
james p Posted August 16, 2007 Report Posted August 16, 2007 nearly lost my grandad to smoking mate its not worth it all hope goes out to your dad and your family you never know whats guna happen he may turn it round
Mr Sam Posted August 16, 2007 Report Posted August 16, 2007 bit of a reality check sorry to hear that dude
presleybeetrootboy Posted August 16, 2007 Report Posted August 16, 2007 my mums doctor said if she dont stop smoking she gt 3 to 4 yrs so i will never smoke soz to hear that m8
Mr.Sumo Posted August 16, 2007 Report Posted August 16, 2007 Sorry to hear about your Dad m8......what else can i you say
Twinkle Posted August 16, 2007 Report Posted August 16, 2007 gutted for you m8, do as much as you can with him and spend time together doing as many of the things you and he always dreamed of doing together
Copey Posted August 16, 2007 Report Posted August 16, 2007 so sorry to hear that!! lost my grandma through a very similar situation, again smoking realated!! but that sucks! so sorry to hear that, hope you manage to quit though, least part of his last wish will come true, even if ur brother doesnt, sorry man!!
escort new boy Posted August 17, 2007 Report Posted August 17, 2007 to be honest mate i don't no what i would do with out my dad hes like my best mate so im sorry for you mate Jack
DeuceCoupe Posted August 17, 2007 Report Posted August 17, 2007 sorry to here that go enjoy what time you have with him
Admin Mk2Jo Posted August 17, 2007 Admin Report Posted August 17, 2007 That's very tragic Gareth - so sorry to hear that . Like everyone said already, make sure you do all the things that you want to do with him and be sure to tell him all the things you need to tell him It's the sort of thing that you just think happens to everyone else
bomber1 Posted August 17, 2007 Report Posted August 17, 2007 gutted for ya m8. but at least u have some time to do/say all the things u need to. my 1st stepdad was like my real dad as in taugh me to ride pushbike taught me to drive at 13 we built my first road car together (mini van with 1100 disc brakes etc) one day went to work all was fine. by the time i got home he had died of a heart attack in the afternoon so many things un said and not done
RFChris Posted August 17, 2007 Report Posted August 17, 2007 gutted for you m8, do as much as you can with him and spend time together doing as many of the things you and he always dreamed of doing together So sorry to hear that mate, but what Twink said is damn fine advice. Make sure you do.
Trevmk3 Posted August 17, 2007 Report Posted August 17, 2007 very sorry to here that Gareth, it will be hard but just make the most of it. i went through the same thing with my dad but he only had about a month
atomic punk Posted August 17, 2007 Report Posted August 17, 2007 Holy shit what can I say sorry to hear that.
Gareth Posted August 19, 2007 Author Report Posted August 19, 2007 Thanks for the kind words everyone, it helps a lot
Pipster007 Posted August 19, 2007 Report Posted August 19, 2007 Sorry to hear that. Lets hope you can cram an awful lot of living in with him with the amount of time he has left
jay Posted August 19, 2007 Report Posted August 19, 2007 mate, dont know what to say... i'm sorry/gutted for you... just make his remaining months a blast...
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