parents unfair or me?

[rob-loves-osf]

hi all

 

i would like to share with you all my parents idea's of fair and not fair!

 

when i was young my bro was born with a disability but he always got what he wanted (to the point my grandparents said so too!) and i always went either without or a crappy compramise!

 

but lately

 

i moved to a 2 bedroom detatched bungalow when i was 13 having spent 1 year at featherstone high school- then moved here felt sick for about 2 week (house moving i cant do with it!) then went to ossett high school had to get to know every one and got picked on up until yr10 when i began fighting and getting pissed off! (parents kept having a go at me for this too!

 

but when i was about 13 they offered me my mums car(bright yellow cinquecento sporting! yeah liked that car but while it was still ma mums car it broke down and never got fixed and got given away to a dads mate a work

 

then when i was 14 on the same day as my 14th bday- my grandad paul(who loves capri's and mk1 escys! and loves osf(dont think he is on here)

found and offered to me even tho my aunt needed it to run about in while her mk1 was in need of work

but he still gave me it and it was such a suprise to find in the garge when i got in from school

 

they said go on get to work with it then! so i ripped out the interior cleaned it all up (after the old doris had fags all over ash ! all over!!)

 

cleaned it and saved up my pocket money and was going to start work on the car mum n dad sed look we will give you upto 700 quid to get the car sorted and through its mot when ure ready so yeah ok il go with that - wax it once a month(as our garage leaks) n cover it back up

left it a whole year and i said look i dont want to get rid of it but they made me scrap it it was all shiny n stuff i loved that car!!!(

in return my mum then said look its not your car as the dvla said your not 16 and cant (even tho the car was sorned and off the road and on private property!!!!!!!!!)

so i took my mums ford ka when she had done with it earlier this year and i cleaered out the garage again n spent 4 days YES 4days solid cleaning this car- engine bay steam blasted and polished up - interior strip steamed,wash vaxed and freshed up carpet the worx! exterior i spent another 3 days cleaning underside arches,bodywork waxing the lot !! it looked a gem

my mum then said right im takin the keys with me as she went out and i tried to push the car into the garage when i t was beging to rain and couldnt get it in and accidently hit a fence pannel with the door as the garage is on such a slight slope but i just kicked it back through n it was fine

 

they then said right your not having the car and later sold it on ebay and someone baught it (they never let me sign the log book over - i dont wheel spin or drive em all the time only when i need to get either somert outa the garage or when im cleaning the sodding thing!!

 

i recently was askin can i have a scooter instead then! ye ye ye ok about to buy one when i mum said look there's no point as you will need a job and were tryin to sell the house but im 16 and have been for yonks

 

she said no right at the last minute so i asked for a new bike at 100 quid that i cant really fit on being 6ft3 with size 14 trainers i need something bigger she sed no we cant we cant no no no - i asked if i could get some suspenion forks fitted to my 15 yr old carrera katalyst that i got given by my uncle - solid rigid and hard riding!

no you cant!

 

and tonite to top it off!

 

the othernite i asked about a job in jjb in dewsbury and said can i go to work with you tmoz and i can walk round to my grandads n get my cv printed no! ya f ing cant so i waited til tonite and about to go with her (as my brother goes rugby training) in cas near my gdads anyways she drives off !!!!!!!! leaving me pissed off to the max!!

and another thing

 

my brother just last month got a laptop for 80 quid off ebay and gets loads of stuff for rugby t-shirts,ball,impact vests,countless pairs of boots and anything he wants! and messes everything up and i have to tidy it all up after the gobby little s**t and its bad enough sharing a bedroom at 16 nealy 17 and having to tidy every little thing up that every body makes

 

feels like im just being shit on with everything!!!

 

what do you think?

 

am i wrong is it just me? or is it time i moved out to live with me grandad?

 

as im pretty much in a constant arguement with em all

 

rob

[evil knievel]

sounds a bit shit to me mate!

 

looks to me like your parents are being unfair to you. why don't you buy an osf out of your own pocket and keep it round the corner? then at least you'd have a ford

 

then start living in it. should solve a few problems mate

[rob-loves-osf]

yeah thats a good idea i think id need to be a million aire when winter comes- running the engine to keep the car warm lol

 

being 16 it needs to be off the road too - im thinkin of seeing if i can rent a garage off a neigbour and getting a car transporter company to pick one up off ebay or somewhere local ish 60 miles most or summert and pugging it in a garage - if we move then get it transported over to our new house- its tough itll be nowt to do with them

 

so anyone got any idea's as i can go and live at my grandads and look for work over that way

 

rob

[5hane]

sorry to say this about ur parents, but to me they seem utter Apple Pies

 

time to move in ur grandads gets my vote, he sounds a great fella

 

 

OR when ur 17 move out

[rob-loves-osf]

yep and i dont mind you saying that ( i should but dont)

 

yeah my grandad is the best guy ever makes me laugh all the time and is there all the time( i suppose i could move in with him till im 17 or can afford my own place)

 

and just one more thing there was a few personal things i needed to see the quack about but that got ignored ( i sorted one prob out my self) but one isnt and just i clue( its something to do with 1+2 people (phmosis sorta thing)( jus cnt well ya no lol)

[5hane]

i would defo go ur grandads m8

 

 

have u got msn?

[rob-loves-osf]

yeah sure have

 

bikerbaff@hotmail.com

 

cheers

[rob-loves-osf]

anyone can add me

 

rob

[5hane]

added.. now get on there

[antz]

sounds like you got the short straw mate.

 

unfortunately you can choose your friends but you chant choose your family

[countrybumpkin]

you can own a car before your 17 as long as you dont drive it on the road i had my name on a escort log book when i was 15, so you could buy a car and keep it on the road as long as you could find a cmpany to insure it. it dose sound like you getting an unfair deal i say move in with your grandad

[jed]

Sorry mate theres just just too many words

[mk3cokebottle]

become a rebel n go get pissed up the park or graffiti on there fence or run through the house with dirty trainers on or somink ta really piss em off then phone ya gramps n get picked up

[Fiesta Steve]

Sorry mate theres just just too many words

 

pmsl

[Fiesta Steve]

 

unfortunately you can choose your friends but you chant choose your family

 

Very true m8

[2.8i Cossie]

Speak to your grandad first so its not a total surprise to him. Tell him what your going through and then ask if he would take you in. Even if its only for a few years.

 

Means its not a shock when he opens the front door and your standing there with all your gear and hes in the living room getting his annual shag!

 

Hope you get it sorted. Family matters are not easy to resolve

[Slammed]

mate ask shane i get shat on constantly lol. i can barley get away with engines

 

btw i added u on msn b4 ya ask

[mk1fez]

wow, lots of us osf'ers ar gettin arguements with our parents

when i get annoyed, i just go in my room, kick the sh*t outa my headboard ( ), which is followed my monumental shoting, and in the end, its not worth arguing, because you know you're gonna come off worse!

however, i understand how you feel, and i deffo agree with you on going to live with yer granda, i have been in that position countless times

[rob-loves-osf]

yeah but i do come out best coz i get em all corners up and there jus left in that moment b b bb b kinda thing n i jus feck off n get laggered n come home or sleep out, and yeah i know i can own a car at any age with it in my name as long as it is sorned and off the road - thats all i want- its my hobby is real cars!!!

 

thanks

 

guys - youve all helped!

 

#1 is osf!

 

rob