antz Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 Flipping heck i feel shit. My and my girlfriend broke up after 2 1/2 years last night
Chud Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 Hiyah mate,i'm so sorry to hear that,i was going out with a girl years ago and we had been together for 3 1/2 years & on the day we were getting engaged she decided she did'nt love me anymore!!It feels bad now mate but your soon be back to normal,hope things work out for you.
Jimbob-Squarepants © Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 Sorry to hear that Antz me old mate. Chin up, get out on the razzle. Lifes to short, have some fun BTW, is this the selfish bird who wanted a one way relationship????
antz Posted July 12, 2008 Author Report Posted July 12, 2008 i dont drink Jim she didnt want a one way relationship but she had no car to get here to see me. she did some up on the train a few tiems but her mum took her back home because she said she refused to pay £56 one way and sit on a train for 10hours (it took a weird route home)...I gave it my best shot and even the fuel bill of £50 each way crippling me in the end. i feel shit cos i do love her but living 3 (155 miles) hours apart was making me ill and i couldnt take the distance. It was just too much for me. I was supposed to go see her last night but i rang her up and said i wanted to break up. i always hoped she would break up with me first cos its easier but i couldnt do it to myself anymore. we tried our best and it didnt work. just sucks that she was also my best mate and even though i asked to be friends i dont think itll happen. f**kin hell i feel lousy
Retro-gone. Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 thats a bummer matey, i know that feeling all too well at least you got the escy to take yer mind off things
antz Posted July 12, 2008 Author Report Posted July 12, 2008 dont feel like playing with the car today...to be honest i dont feel like doing anything except sitting here feeling sorry myself and wondering about life.
Retro-gone. Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 Antz you are young, i hate to say it but when youve got a few years behind you you wont even remember this incident, i gaurantee it, a broken heart will stay with you untill its repaired, so get out there and get it repaired! when i was 21 my girlfriend (who i absolutely worshipped) was killed in a traffic accident, i thought my life was over i really did, now im happily married, 3 grown up kids and a grandaughter, i still think of the girl i lost all those years ago but it doesnt hurt no more. at least you had the choice , i didnt , she was taken from me without even the time for goodbyes.. you will get thro this mate, but be prepared because it probably wont be the only time in your life you feel like this over a girl. you know where i am if you need a cuddle
Trevmk3 Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 sorry to here that Antz mate. get out in your car and you will feel much better mate, dont sit around feeling crap all day
Stu_B Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 a broken heart will stay with you untill its repaired wise words & so true
richie_stix Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 it's been said, your only young mate (so am i) but there are plenty fish in the sea... and my approach to life is to look for that silver lining... at least you can save money now, spend it on the car and keep busy with the car... the less you think about it, the less it will hurt! (why most people who drink get smashed in this situation) don't worry mate, you'll get through
Burns Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 stick a matress in the back of the volvo and go croozin
antz Posted July 12, 2008 Author Report Posted July 12, 2008 thanks for the advice people (especially tony) I went out with my parents today to try and take my mind off thigns but it didnt help that i went to Hull and the last time i went to Hull was with the girlfriend. My mum did buy me a new computer though which is nice of her. I just feel very emotional at the moment and think im fit to drive so ill give it a day or two. I know its gonna hurt like fook for a while but Ive been thinking that the diatcen both amde us unhappy and that now we arent together she will find someone closer to her who can be wiuth her all the time thrugh thick and thin..not every 2nd weekend like i could....She will find someone better than me who can be there for her in ways that i couldnt. I know im only young but she was actually my first ever girlfriend and we were together 2 1/2 years so ive never been through this situation before. Just sucsk that she was also my bestest best mate and ive lost that too....double whammy
antz Posted July 12, 2008 Author Report Posted July 12, 2008 that made me smile for the first time since yeaterday
mk3tina Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 it sucks big time doesnt it, its just happened to me too mate, im just moping around trying to work on my car, its all happened to me before and it does get better with time so dont worry (easier said than done i know) get out with your mates, they always make you feel better
antz Posted July 12, 2008 Author Report Posted July 12, 2008 i just feel content moping round the house, shedding the odd tear at the moment. might go out tomorow night...might sit inside tonight and watch a film and wallow in my own self pity for a while. I hope you feel better soon dude
quickrack Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 i just feel content moping round the house, shedding the odd tear at the moment. might go out tomorow night...might sit inside tonight and watch a film and wallow in my own self pity for a while. I hope you feel better soon dude good plan!!!
surfingturnip Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 you know where I am mate, dont be a stranger. It feels shite ( you know what I was like after last time) but things will get better. I might just have to take you out somewhere to give ya somethin to do when I can scrape some cash together
Stu_B Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 that made me smile for the first time since yeaterday
louie bagel Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 sorry too hear that mate but it'll all seem better soon fella
antz Posted July 12, 2008 Author Report Posted July 12, 2008 i had a long chat with my mother and i feel a bit better now. she hasnt been on msn though and i think she has blocked me not a lot i can do now....except move on i guess.
mr squidian Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 theres not much you can say in that sorta situation split with my girlfreind a while ago. not had another one since. went on her bebo and shes deleted everything about me.
omj624p Posted July 12, 2008 Report Posted July 12, 2008 Sorry to hear your news Take yourself for a long drive tomorrow, say Kettering, to the SEOC show, and there may be a nice straight bumper waiting there for you Seriously, keep yourself busy, but also take time to just sit and do nothing if you feel like it. Remember time is a great healer. Steve
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